Welcome to Janathi Message

Ask The Imam Question and Answer

937 I have been married for 4 years Mashallah but my wife gets angry over little things. Then she does not talk to me or make me food or tea. As I work 6 days trying to make money for my wife and child. She swears at me and I tell her Allah (S.W.T) is watching and I get tears asking myself why.

My wife is not that bad but when angry she starts insulting me and swears words sometimes. My wife reads Namaz 5 times Alhamdulillah. But then I think why does she do this? I am a good hearted person I respect her and everyone and I still forgive please help JazakAllah.
It is very good Mashallah that your wife reads Namaz which shows obedience to the commands of Allah (S.W.T). However she also needs to be made aware that Allah (S.W.T) has also ordered the wife to acknowledge the rights of her husband and be kind and pleasing towards him (and vice versa).

It is imperative that each party plays their prescribed role within the relationship, in order to reach success in this world and the hereafter.

It is narrated in Hadith Shareef that anger is from the Devil, and in the state of anger one commit’s many sins and loses control over their actions (Al-Bukhari 7/99, Muslim 4/2015). To control anger please encourage your wife to recite Thauz with regularity.

Thauz is to recite: Aaoozu billaahi minash-Shaytaanir-rajeem.

Meaning: "I seek the refuge of Allah Almighty from the Rejected Shaitan (Devil)"

We pray that Allah (S.W.T) gives you strength and Sabr (patience) and May Allah (S.W.T) make your marriage stronger and peaceful, full of happiness - Ameen.

(Answered by: Hafiz Mohammed Akhtar)
Category (Others)