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If a woman is divorced by her husband, how long does she need to wait before remarrying? |
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What is the normal age of Marriage in Islam? |
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Can you please provide for me the permissible Shari limits when looking for a partner for marriage and are the boy and girl allowed to see or talk to one another to see if they are compatible to one another for marriage? What is the importance/ level of parents and familys involvement? |
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Are you allowed weddings in a mosque? If the answer is yes, then what about the prayer? |
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I want to get married to a non Muslim, can you please tell me, should I have to tell her to change into Muslim or is that ok, getting married to her?
Other question: Do you have to get married in Islam, or can you stay single? Thank you, Allah Hafiz |
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Does everyone have to get married? |
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Should all Muslims get married? |
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Does everyone have to get married? |
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What I want to ask is that I want to have nikkah with a lady here in Sheffield, both of us are willing and in love for about a year. We are both 34 years old and want to have nikah but do not have any one to attend and be witness for our nikkah.
Can it be arranged at your mosque or anywhere else? and what we need is two witnesses as well who could attend. Also can you recite our nikkah?
We will pay for the expenditures whatever they come up to, please reply. Thank You Allah hafiz. |
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Is there a Dua that can be read, to help find the right life partner? Is this Dua the same for men and women?
May Allah (S.W.T) bless and reward you in this life and the next for the excellent work you do. Jazakallah |
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I have been recently married. My parents have lied to me about my husband, when the proposal came, my parents lied to me, in order for me to marry him. I was told that he is a practicing Muslim who prays five times a day and around 25 years in age and a Sunni.
Despite my disapproval my parents agreed, so I got married. I realized on the night of my wedding, he is only 22, who is'’t practicing and his thoughts are in the way of salafis. I am worried please tell me what the Shariah says about this? |
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I just wanted to ask that in Islam should a woman be forced to marry? If she gets forced and gets married does she have right to get divorce from him? |
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Hi, for the last 6 months I have been dating a Muslim boy. I am Zoroastrian and he is Pakistani Muslim. I love him so very much, but when he approached his mother about the idea of him possibly marrying a Non-Muslim girl, the mother did not approve. It is for this reason we had to break up.
Is there any way in convincing the mother that it is ok for us to get married?
My religion does not allow me to pass my religion onto my children and it is for this reason any children we would have would be Muslim. As my love for him is so strong, I would do anything to be with him. I have even suggested that I learn and practice Islam.
He brought light into my life during such dark times and yes it has only been 6 months but those past months have been the best of my life. Out of respect for his mother he has said we cannot be together and I know this decision was very hard for him.
The reason I am writing here is that I need advice on how I could get him to convince his mother that marrying a Non Muslim would not be so bad. I am so upset and all I want is for God to give us a chance...for us both to be happy. We truly found happiness with each other after a long time and now it feels that it has been taken away from us. |
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Can a man marry who’s never been married before, to a woman who’s been divorced? |
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I met my partner ten years ago. Two years into the relationship he was told him and his family was going to Bangladesh to visit his dying granddad. They lied and once he was there they forced him into an arranged marriage.
His family kept him there for 11 months during this time a child was conceived and we had no contact. He gave up on life and felt he had no choice but to get married and do as his family tell him. The marriage wasn't good his wife treated him very badly.
A month into the marriage her family wanted them to separate because of how badly she treated him however his family wouldn't allow it. He has now been married for eight and a half years but separated for most of that time. We have broken up many, times as we both felt we should do the right thing to please Allah (S.W.T).
We felt we should have no contact and he should try to make his marriage work and if Allah (S.W.T) wants us to be together we will be. We failed each time as we truly love each other so much we couldn't bear to be apart.
What shall we do? Sometimes I feel he should go back to his wife for her sake and for his son but he is so unhappy with her and he loves me so much. He is suffering so much. He is 28 now and feels he has nothing in life. We want to get married and help each other to be good Muslims.
I reverted to Islam two years ago. Are we going to hell? Was staying together the wrong thing to do? She never treated him good. He loves his son very much but doesn't feel that’s enough to stay living such a miserable life. I'm not heartless I feel sorry for her we both live with so much guilt. Is it ok for him to divorce her and marry me? |
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Did Hazret Ali (R.A) marry anyone else besides Hazrete Fatima (R.A)? |
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Mean jis Larki say Shadi karna chahta hoo un say Father nay meray Grand father ki Mother kar Doodh Piya hai - Kaya meri us larki say shadi ho sakhti hai?
Translation of Question into English: The woman I want to get married to, her Father has been breast feed by my great grandmother. Can I marry this woman? |
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Someone I know who got married some years ago, had a very serious fight with her husband where her husband left with the intention of never coming back. She also stopped thinking of him as her husband and they had no contact for six months around. She finally decided to get a divorce from him.
The question is, does the woman's idthath start after she receives the divorce papers or did it start the day the husband left? (there has been no contact between both parties for over six months and the day the husband left, the woman had no intention of ever getting back together with him, in fact she did not view him as her husband any longer) |
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What is definition of Khullah and what is the process of getting Khullah? |
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Ek islami bhai ne apani paheli bivi hayat hone ke bavjud uski ijajat ke bager dusara nikah kar liya ho to kya jaiz hoga?
English Interpretation : An Islamic brother who is married, has gone and married a second woman although his first wife is still alive and he never took permission from his first wife. Is this allowed? |
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My problem is that I love a Shia girl and I’m a Sunni. We love each other very much and want to do Nikha. She loves me too but her parents are forcing her to marry with another boy. She has been kept lock in her home for more then 80 days now. We want to do Nikha.
Is it possible to do Nikha on phone? Also if we do Nikha without the permission of our parents what will be the procedure because her family is not supporting her and there will be no witness from her side. |
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l intend making Nikah soon, but l have a question with regard to a women monthly cycle. This was discussed amongst us and a date has been set after her normal cycle.
Though the possibility exists that due to anxiety or excitement that she may get her period on the night of the Nikah. It is customary to consummate the Nikah within three days. What would the procedure be in such an instance? Jazakallah, Awaiting your soonest reply. |
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Mera question hia agar shahor apni biwi se kahe, mian tum ko talaq nahi deta
maghar, Dusari biwi se balon ga main ne payhli biwi ko talaq dey di hai. Kiya iss tarah payhli biwi ko talaq ho jay gi?
Interpretation: If a husband says to his wife that I won’t divorce you, but I will tell my second wife that I have divorced my first wife. Will this constitute to a divorce? |
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Which of the Salutation 'Assalam Alaikum' or 'Salam Alaikum' is correct or better because Assalam Alaikum is not mentioned in the Quran. Also when the Holy Prophet (S.A.W) wrote a letter to Munzir Bin Sawi it was addressed with Salutation ‘Salam Alaikum’. |
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I am a Muslim woman who had a relationship with a Muslim man. I was living far away (different country) from him, and then we decided to move together and get married. We got married in the register office.
I have always insisted to get married, religiously by seeing the Imam. We lived together for 1year and 7months. Unfortunately, we got separate 5 months. I decided to leave him because he was lying, cheating and I was angry. Now he is with another woman (girlfriend).
I want to divorce him but someone has told me that I can't because we didn’t get married in the Islamic way. Is it true I can't divorce him even though we didn’t get married religiously? |
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Muslim men are eligible second marriages. So is it necessary that the person should get divorced with first wife and get married with someone else? Can't he live with both the wives?
I came to know that, the person who wants to do second marriage he should have to take permission from the first wife and can get married with second without divorce. Is this compulsory? Taking permission from the first wife is mandatory?
Please let me know the exact procedure. |
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I am happily married Muslim female. My husband is a true gem with the grace of Allah (S.W.T) but my parents often make all important decisions for me and him. He treats them like his parents but sometime I can see he’s not happy about this.
Should I listen to my parents or my husband bearing in mind its things like if we go away for holiday how long it should be, if we can visit family friends or not etc..? |
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687 |
Does the Nikah break if a wife addresses her husband by his name? |
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Is there any rule in Islam that a man can marry a Muslim girl (who has good character) without the permission of Parents, even if the parents dislike the girl? |
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Imam Sahib meri jald he shadi hai, mujhay wo sub kuch bata dain jo nikah key waqat molvi sahib parhatay hein?
Interpretation:
Imam Sahib I am to get married soon, can you please inform me of all that the
Imam Sahib asks a groom or bride to read? |
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701 |
Is it allowed to marry a 'Catholic' woman?
If yes, what are the obligations to be fulfilled? |
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Is it right for a wife to be negative and create problems if the husband is not in paid employment and he and his wife receive separately there own income from state benefits and the family with children are living comfortably without any financial hardship? |
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I have been friends with a Muslim boy for a long time and over that time we have found happiness with each other. We want to get married however his family is not happy with it. I am from a different ’caste' to him and it is his mother wish for him to marry form Pakistan.
I don’t practice Islam as of yet but I am learning and trying to become a better Muslim. He loves his mother and would do anything to make her happy even if this means he will be unhappy in his marriage. How can I show his mother that I can make her son happy and for her to accept that even I’m from a different part of Pakistan to them we can be happy together?
And if she does not agree am I just meant to give up and walk away even if that means we both will get hurt. Please help. |
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If a husband divorces his wife when she is pregnant does divorce happen? Or if a man makes Nikah with a pregnant woman what is the rule? Jazakallah |
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When will be my marriage? |
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My daughter was engaged in Islamic law to call her husband over to this country. When he did come over we were supposed to do the wedding but my daughter and her fiance there was so much incompatibility the wedding was called off and they parted ways.
He got married somewhere else and my daughter has now not got married but wants to but there is no marriage proposals coming to her that are islamically acceptable she is now 30 is there anything she can do or read for Allah (S.W.T) to grant her a loving husband? |
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I love a Muslim man and he is 6 years younger than me. Both his parents and my parents will not permit to the wedding, only because of age. We want to move ahead in a Halal way. Can I still marry him with any of our parent's consent? Is there a way to be with him in Allah's way? I can’t marry another man having him in heart. Can u please share a way? |
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I am about to marry my Muslim fiance in a ceremony with an imam in Turkey......
I would like to know the roles of a husband and wife....would my husband be right in not allowing me to do certain things or go certain places? Do I have the same rights on him?
I have started to read the Quran and am trying to learn more. I was raised as a Christian and obviously know about my religion I need more understanding of his.
AND… I just wanted to clarify what a woman's role is in a marriage.
Am I right in saying that her priorities should be being a good wife and mother?
But, if she has no children, what constitutes being a good wife?
Traditionally people would assume this means cooking and cleaning etc for the husband. But did the Prophet (S.A.W) not do this for himself? Also, if she is working, is it acceptable for her husband to help her? |
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I have been married for two years now but me and my husband have not had sexual intercourse. This is due to an illness he is experiencing.
My friends and family have told me recently that if sexual intercourse between a married couple does not occur within the first three months of their marriage, their Nikah becomes invalid. Is this true? And also is there any Quranic Ayat or AHadith which can help my husband with his difficulty? |
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Can Nikah be done in the months between Eid-ul Fitr and Eid-ul Adha? |
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Merey liye q rishtey nahi aathy..koi Wazifa bata dey plz?
English Interpretation:
Why are there no marriage proposal coming for me? Please tell me some Wazifa. |
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I have heard that you cannot get married between the two Eids. Is this true? |
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914 |
Why am I not married yet? I’ve been divorced for 5 years and I have 3 kids! |
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917 |
Are the deeds of a woman who is in her Iddah and divorced by Talaaq accepted? |
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Sir I am married and from last 6 months I am at my parent’s house. I want to go back to my husband where as our parents are asking for divorce but I don’t want divorce due to my daughter.
Please tell some Dua which helps me to get out of this tough situation. My husband and in-laws are not in touch with us. Please help me? |
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Moulana Sahib. Bandish ka masala hay bohat arsay say rishtay anay key bawjud tay nahe ho patay meharbani kar key masalay ka hal farmaye.
English Interpretation:
Imam Sahib, problem of bandish (restriction). For a long time despite proposal, no match is being made. Please help solve this problem? |
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924 |
Is a husband allowed to force himself on his wife? |
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935 |
If a person is born outside of marriage, is it allowed for a Muslim woman to have a Nikah with according to Shariah, even if that person is a Muslim? |
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942 |
Is “Love Marriage” allowed in Islam according to Islamic Shariah? |
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Kya ek hindu ladka ek muslim ladki ki saadi ho sakti hai? main use bahut pyar karta hoon.
English Interpretation : Can a Hindu man marry a Muslim woman? I love her alot. |
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I am a 16 year old female who would like to ask whether it is okay for me to think about what sort of husband I would like when I’m older. I’ve been having dreams when me and him are together and were hugging and all sorts although I can never really see a face. I’m worried about if I’m getting Gunnah as to thinking things like this? |
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982 |
What rights does a Muslim wife have in marriage? |
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What rights does a Muslim man generally have in marriage? |
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My question is about my sister's Marriage. My father forced her to get married to his brother's Son. My sister was with her husband for a year but it didn't work out
and they got separated.
She is living with me since then. Now her husband wants to get married to another woman. He asked my sister's permission and she gave him a permission to get married. The problem is that we are in USA and her ex husband is in Pakistan.
He said when he went to do Nikkah with another woman, the Imam who was doing the Nikkah asked for written letter saying that she gave him a permission and they need a copies of my mother's and mine ID Card. Is there such thing like that? My sister told him that she could talk to IMAAM over the phone but they keep on insisting for the written letter. What do we do? And where do we get such letter? |
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1024 |
What do I do if I am in a marriage where I am not happy and do not love my husband and never have? I thought that as I got to know him in the years things would change but they have not, I care for him and was happy for first 2 yrs but the big problem is intimacy, I am not interested at all and just abide by it because it is my duty. This has caused major problems to the extent of contemplating divorce, or I’m considering letting him having another wife. |
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I like someone truly and he also likes me too. He has got permission from his mother for marriage but his father has fixed his marriage with his relative. We both like each other. We met in an incident. I believe Allah (S.W.T) has bought him in my life. I am praying daily and asking Dua to Allah (S.W.T) for my marriage with him. Is this a sin? Please give some Dua for me. |
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1035 |
My wife has applied for Khullah. I had gifted her a hospital and a car, what will be my gifts return after Khullah? |
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My husband gave me an Islamic divorce a week ago by signing papers that said I have divorced my wife 3 times and got two witnessed to sign it then sent it to a Molvi and then the Molvi and I signed the papers.
He only signed them because I had told him. Now he said he made a mistake because I pressurized him to sign the papers and wants to get back with me. The Molvi said this is not possible. But my husband only signed the papers once not in three separate go’s. Is our Nikah still valid? Please help quickly. |
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1039 |
I am a Muslim man that is married and have children, recently on TV on Eastenders there is a Muslim man who is married but is gay and leaves his wife to be with a White man, and it’s made it seem that being gay is ok.
I too am a Muslim gay man and have found a White man I have fallen in love with and want to be with him, if I should leave my wife to be with this man will Islam be accepting and will the lord forgive me. |
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I am worried about my husband. He drinks, never read Namaz except Friday sometime and spend most of the time with friends. I tell him that you spend 6-7 hours with them but it only takes 10-15 mins for Namaz, so why don’t you read Namaz. He responds by saying: you do your job.
He eats everything except pork and also drinks. I can’t bear his unislamic way anymore and needs to change his daily routine. As a wife what is my duties, he always comes late 1-2 am. I can't sleep then I fight with him. |
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My parents are searching for marriage proposals for me. I wanted a well settled person who will love and care for me. Can you please tell me Dua and prayer to find out the right person and good proposals for me. Is there any Dua to marry a person whom we like? |
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I had this question stuck in my head for about 2-3 years. In my school there are a lot of pretty girls and smart and a lot of them are very respectable, but my concern is that they are not Muslims. Is it OK for a Muslim man to marry a non-Muslim woman?
My reason is that I don't find girls in my culture, respecting. I am an Ahiska Turk (Wikipedia has an article). Please tell if it is OK for Muslim man to marry a non-Muslim, if yes what religion should the children be?
And if yes how is the wedding supposed to be, my culture or hers? And please tell me more than I asked please I don't want miss anything. I actually want to know because in my culture nowadays is hard to find at least smart and respectable girl I'm not even talking about being "hot". Please answer me it is really important. I appreciate and thank you all in advance for helping people and developing this wonderful website. |
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My parents are searching for marriage proposals for me. I want a well settled person who will love and care for me. Can you please tell me a Dua to find out the right person and good proposals for me. Is there any Dua to marry a person whom we like? If yes please do tell me. |
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1102 |
I want to marry this guy I like and he likes me back, we have been in a relationship for 6 years now. I want a Halal relation and I want to do Nikah, he wants the same . I pray to Allah (S.W.T) to help me out in this. I know Allah (S.W.T) knows better, but I just want to marry him now ASAP with Allah (S.W.T)'s raza in it. Is it wrong that I am desiring like this? help me out I been real upset. |
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1140 |
Is it permissible for different positions to be used in Mubasharat (intercourse)? |
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1148 |
Can a wife ask for a divorce because her husband did not satisfy her with physical relation? |
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Is it true, a husband cannot enter into his wife’s anus? |
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1213 |
Me and my husband have both given Talaq (Divorce), and we have been living apart since June 2013, where do we stand? |
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1225 |
I wanted to ask whether an Ahle Sunnah Wal Jamaat man can marry someone from a different Sunni Sect? And what if that person whom he wants to marry has moderate beliefs and corrects her beliefs. Is he still allowed to marry her? |
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1226 |
Can a husband have sex with his wife through the anus? |
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1232 |
Please can you assist and advise I have been told by a friend that according to a Hadith it is forbidden to marry a man who’s sister is already married to your brother. Please can advise if here is a Hadith and if it forbidden? |
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I have been married for nearly 3 years and have a 2 year old son. My husband and I are having a difficult time. He smokes cannabis and cannot quit. This is putting huge strain on our our marriage what can I do? |
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I am about to marry my Muslim fiance in a ceremony with an Imam in Turkey. I would like to know the roles of a husband and wife....would my husband be right in not allowing me to do certain things or go certain places? Do I have the same rights on him? I have started to read the Quran and am trying to learn more. I was raised as a Christian and obviously know about my religion I need more understanding of his.
AND. I just wanted to clarify what a woman's role is in a marriage. Am I right in saying that her priorities should be being a good wife and mother?
But, if she has no children, what constitutes being a good wife? Traditionally, people would assume this means cooking and cleaning etc for the husband. But did the Prophet (S.A.W) not do this for himself? Also, if she is working, is it acceptable for her husband to help her? |
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Does a divorce done in extreme anger without realizing it was being said and lacking intention count as a divorce? |
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Is it right for society to look upon a divorced woman in a bad light?
People think of her as an impure woman and make her feel like it is her fault? When it is not her fault but was meant to be, the will of Allah? It was the husband who mistreated and divorced her. People don’t mind unmarried women even if they impure as long as they don’t have the tag of marriage on them.
Could you put some light on this matter. Does a person get Sawab for marrying a divorcee? |
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I want to ask that, I want to marry someone other, but my family forcefully engaged to other one, without my consent (razamandi), the boy whom I want to marry also want to marry to me, please now what I do, if you have any Wazeefa that joined us please guide… |
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My wife is pregnant and things did not work out between us and she has asked for Khullah but instead in the letter she stated I want to divorce her which I did not. during this course in anger I wrote Talaq 3 times on a paper and said it numerous times in front of few people so is the Talaq valid now? At the end of the day I would give her Talaq but she is still unaware of this please help jazak Allah |
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Sir one of my friend have a concern About divorce actually she and her husband had a fight few days ago and in the mean while her husband left the room and went to his mums room and then he said to his mum that this girl is not my wife and he repeated these words for three time and the girl wasn't in the Room , now this girl is worried about it if its equal to divorce or not because it's a bit complicated .. Thanks and Allah hafiz |
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