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2 During The month of Ramadan are our sins forgiven?
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68 My husbands mother and father have come from Pakistan. Since they arrived until now I have been respecting them and treating them like my own parents. In fact I have not been to see my own parents for three months just to keep my husband happy. However despite this my mother in law has constantly been unhappy. I think she misses Pakistan and has been miserable. I have been just normal and have always tried to create a happy environment in the home. Yesterday my mother in law told my husband that she did not want to live here anymore and she was feeling depressed. My husband got angry. It was then decided that they would go back to Pakistan. Because of this my husband began to feel upset and started to argue with me for no apparent reason. He refused food and drink that was cooked by me and did not speak to me.
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86 Telling tales / back biting is a grave sin, but is using abusive language i.e. swearing, offensive remarks etc a sin or just not a nice to hear?
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88 I have been told that when a person spills salt on the ground, then on the Day of Judgment that person will be asked to pick it up by his eye lashes. Is this true, if so why this punishment?
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285 If you do something wrong for some part of your life and then at one moment you find that it is wrong to do, do you get punished for not knowing it was wrong?
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350 If you lie what would happen on judgement day?
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435 With regards to Quran and Hadith could you please answer what is the punishment for a person who commits adultery, and also if this person repents sincerely will he still face the punishment of Allah (S.W.T).
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483 In our lives sometimes we commit Sin. We do Asthgfar but the same Sin keeps on coming back to the mind over and over again. I want to move forward towards the right path but still face problems. What can I do ?
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513 I try not to kills insects however in the summer months when mosquitoes are of an abundance I have used insect killing spray. Is it deemed a sin to kill such things after all they are Allah’s creatures. I was told by a friend it was viable because they are pests? What is the true opinion?
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537 How can we ask Allah (S.W.T) to forgive us?
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545 When we take our shoes off, is it a Sin if we face them towards Kaaba Shareef?
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562 In my life I have done many Gunnah and am still doing big Gunnah I wish to stop. I do Pray Namaz but after sometime I go back to the bad habits and make Gunnah again. It should not be like that as I am a Muslim and know what is right and what is wrong. Can you give me a vazifah or Dua which will help me?
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564 I advised and asked the mother of my kids to have a surgical operation to stop getting pregnant permanently. She didn't want to, but she did. We have two kids. I know that I am fully responsible, and I know that I made a Haram Act. Now I am better Muslim, and I make Salat (Namaz). How can I ask forgiveness from Allah (S.W.T) and what is Kaffarah?
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645 Dear sir I am student. For different purposes I have to use internet but when I use internet my mind goes towards other things I mean pornography etc but I want to be away from these things and want to be a true Muslim please tell me a Dua or an Ayah or Surah which I should recite before I use internet to control my self I am in great distress please help me I will be really obliged.
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674 If you lie to others but you don't have intention to hurt any body and your just lying because you know if you tell the truth either you are going to get into trouble or people will misunderstand you, so does that get counted as a lie and will you get punish?
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675 When you commit a sin and you ask for forgiveness, are your sins really forgiven. I mean can we say for sure that our sins are forgiven after asking for forgiveness?
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775 I know a female Muslim doctor. Her grandfather is an Imam. She had sex with her last boyfriend who was a white, English drug dealer of no faith. She before that has engaged in sexual acts with other men, including two men at once. She is now dating another Muslim. This man is also a drug user and dealer. She seems to be excited by this life style. Her family knows none of this. What should I do?
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788 I have committed Zina (major sins) and since have asked Allah for forgiveness. I am ashamed and hate myself for my actions. Now I’m married with children but still cannot forgive myself to why I did these. If I keep asking Allah for forgiveness will I be forgiven? Also please tell me other ways of asking for forgiveness. Thank you
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836 My friend had a relationship (outside marriage) with one white girl and he had 2 kids from her, now this girl wants to become Muslim. He is also feeling sorry for what he have done. What will be status of their kids, if she become Muslim and they get married. Is it ok for her to become Muslim. Is there is any solution for them according to Quran or Sunah.
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864 I have done a big sin. I had sexual intercourse with my wife after the child birth of 5th day itself, I didn't wait for 40 days completion. I don’t know what to do. I pray to Allah (S.W.T) to forgive me sin. I kindly request you to suggest me what are the steps I have to take, in order to be forgiven from Allah (S.W.T).
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900 I'm going to do my daughter's Aqeeqah a few months after she was born. I already cut her hair and gave it in charity when she was 7 days old. What I'm asking is do I have to cut her hair again when I go slaughter the goat? Also, what is the proper supplication to recite when slaughtering the animal for an Aqeeqah. If you can, please use transliteration and Arabic with the English translation. Thank you so very much and may Allah bless you
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905 My husband does not listen to me when I ask him to pray Salah or Fast! He is not Islamic. He believes GOD loves us 7o times more than our mother how can he punish us severely for not praying. How shall I convince him? and can I pray on his place would he get the reward if I pray for myself than one Namaz for him?
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909 If two people are committing Zina with each other, can they marry each other?
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970 Is it right to forgive everyone for everything they have done even if they have hurt me or someone who I am really close to for no good reason, or are there exceptions?
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992 I am writing in regards to some clarity. A friend of mine was in a lesbian relationship for 2 years, while she was in it she was in guilt, and was scared at the same time. The girl she was with is Ismaili and follows Aga khan so she thinks its fine to be gay. The problem is that my friend is extremely hurt because this girl has treated her very badly, not only she broke up with her, she's treated her like she's no body and makes her feel like she's lost out or is guilty. The girl pressured her a lot to come out and tell her family. My friend knows that Allah has guided her in the right path but she wants to find peace and wants this pain to go away. I know being lesbian is Haraam, can you suggest anything for her to pray to get this pain away? Also my friend keeps on telling me that she wants that girl to suffer because she has given her allot of pain while being with her and also after that. What is the punishment of being lesbian? Hoping to hear from you soon.
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1009 Is it Gunnah to watch people kissing on the TV or even in real?
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1041 My due respects. I need someone who could help me and I now turn to you. I am a follower of Islam and live in Dubai. I have come to know of a UK Imam's daughter who recently came to work in Dubai and is in a relationship with non-Muslim man here. I feel it is Haraam. It has been pressing against my heart and mind for some time. What guidance do you offer me? I am in a dilemma.
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1130 I have a big gambling problem, I thought I was getting out of it but I keep going back to bookies to play on the roulette, I have recently started praying 5 times a day at Masjid and I always repent for my mistake and ask Allah (S.W.T) for forgiveness, I went back gambling on the 1st day of Ramadan, please tell me is this Gunnah forgivable? and I was also Fasting at the time!
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1179 I am a married man, I have recently found out my sister in-law is in a sexual relationship even though she is not married. Am i able to eat from her house as she lives with her parents? Can you please tell me what i can do? Jazakallah
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1221 I was wondering how is it to do blasphemy in the heart whereas a person may not mean or believe in whatever he/she says or at times may say things in anger and realise straight after.
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1238 I'm a Muslim who sinned a lot. I gossiped and was involved with boys etc but I was popular and never felt alone. Now I have changed a lot. I pray, read the Quran and I'm making up the prayers and fasts that I missed. I don't backbite anymore and sin as little as possible but I feel alone and nobody likes me. My friends make fun of people and I don't join in because I know it's bad but they find me boring. Sometimes I want to change back but I know it's wrong. I cry all the time. What should I do?
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1271 I am a very bad sinner and I am very scared of Hell and Adhabul Qubur . Please tell me ways to be saved from Adhab in Jahannam and Qubur.
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