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965 I am a 16 year old female who would like to ask whether it is okay for me to think about what sort of husband I would like when I’m older. I’ve been having dreams when me and him are together and were hugging and all sorts although I can never really see a face. I’m worried about if I’m getting Gunnah as to thinking things like this?
You are not accountable for your dreams as these happen without your control. However day dreaming about life partners in not the way you should conduct yourself. It is better to ask Allah (S.W.T) to find you a good life partner when the time is right for you.

Firstly we would urge you to ensure that you pray Salah regularly (if you are not already doing so) and remain in Wudu as long as possible and read continuous Darood Shareef.

Also follow the following Wazifa given by Hazrat Moulana Bashir Ahmed Farooqui Al Qadiri of Sylani Welfare Trust;

“Ya Lateefu” (O Merciful). If this name of Allah (S.W.T) is read 100 times (with Wudu) then your heartedly desire will be fulfilled. Especially for an unmarried girl this Wazifa is very good when read continuously after Namaz-e-Isha with Wudu.

This name of Allah (S.W.T) being read with regularity fulfils all good intensions and will make troubles easy; the readers’ character will be clean with purified heart. Ensure you read 11 times Darood Shareef at the beginning and end (Awal Akhir) of the Wazifa. Inshallah Allah Azawajal will bless you with a pious life partner.

As for the dreams, we suggest that before you reside to bed make Wudu. Before you sleep sit crossed legged on your bed and recite: Surah Fateha once, Ayatul Kursi once, Four Quls three times each, and then blow into the palm of your hand thrice and each time you blow rub them over your body. This should help.

(Answered by: Hafiz Mohammed Akhtar)
Category (Marriage / Divorce)